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Couple dissolves marriage after wife embraces Islam

August 14th, 2007
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problem is, is the divorce via syariah court binding on the non-muslim couple and does the court has the authority? notice that the husband had filed for divorce in civil court on his behalf. of course he won't want to be caught committing bigamy if he marries again, if the registration dept does not acknowledge the syariah courts ruling.
 
thus, the couple have to divorce twice 🙂
 
anyway, this was a "happy" divorce; not one filled with children custody claims and forced conversion of children, plus the lady is the one who converted.

Couple dissolves marriage after wife embraces Islam
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By M. MAGESWARI

PETALING JAYA: A teacher and a hotel manager became the first couple in the country to dissolve their marriage amicably through the Syariah lower court after she embraced Islam.  

Today, Aishah Sandhera Abdullah @ Sandhera Debbie Kimbi, 27, from Sibu, Sarawak, applied to the Syariah lower court here to dissolve her marriage because of the change of religion.  

She made her application under Section 46(2) of the Islamic Family Law Enactment (Selangor) 2003.

The court granted the application to dissolve the marriage.  

In confirming the dissolution of the marriage for her, Syariah court judge Ghazali Ahmad praised the couple for settling the matter good-naturedly.  

According to the statement of claim, Aishah, who is the plaintiff, had married Reynolds Chua Guan Teck, 28, on May 5, 2004.  

The marriage was registered under the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976 as both were Christians during the period. The couple has no children.

Aishah converted to Islam on Feb 2 while the defendant was still a Christian.

The couple then could not live together under Islamic law because of the difference in religions.

She filed the summons and statement of claim on Aug 1 for the dissolution of the marriage.  

The defendant had filed a divorce petition on July 20 at the Shah Alam High Court (civil) under the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act.

The Shah Alam Court has not set a date to hear the divorce matter.

Speaking to reporters later, Aishah's lawyer Zainul Rijal Abu Bakar said the case set a precedent for couples to dissolve their marriages amicably when one party converts to Islam.

He said such settlements should be encouraged as it resulted in a win-win situation for both.  

Earlier, Aishah informed Ghazali that she would attend the divorce case proceeding for Chua at the Shah Alam High Court.

Malacca Chettis share their thoughts

August 14th, 2007
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A challenge to keep traditions alive
The Chetti museum is modelled after a traditional Chetti house.
The Chetti museum is modelled after a traditional Chetti house.

IN the small traditional Chetti village in Gajah Berang, half the homes have access to the Internet.

K. Arunasalam does not like his children listening to rock music.
K. Arunasalam does not like his children listening to rock music.

G. Meenachi Govindasamy Naiker Rajah, who lives 3km from the village, hardly misses any Chetti functions.
G. Meenachi Govindasamy Naiker Rajah, who lives 3km from the village, hardly misses any Chetti functions.

It was set up for younger people like Kavindran Pillay, 15, and his cousin Dinesh Pillay, 17.

Education is a big deal among Chetti families today.

In the past, the Chetti community was poor because there was a lack of educational opportunities, said Kavindran’s father K. Arunasalam, who is the village head.

It is a challenge for parents like Arunasalam and his wife K. Vimala Devi to ensure that their children are knowledgeable about their customs and are not influenced by negative modern culture.
"I don’t like to come home and find my children listening to rock music," he said. But it happens.

"As long as I am there, the children know they have to turn it off."

Kavindran likes listening to Tamil hip hop and rock music. He said he would rather listen to Indian music than Western music.

Dinesh feels the same way. Both have Astro at their homes and they watch music television videos of Beyonce, Shakira and Justin Timberlake.

"But I am not really keen on them," said Dinesh.

The teenagers also like traditional music, much to Arunasalam’s delight.

Vimala Devi said she did not mind if they listened to pop or traditional music as long as they finished their homework.

When it comes to football, sometimes Dinesh and Kavindran find that they are the only teenagers among a group of children on the field.

Dinesh has a deep interest in his roots and culture. He is learning more about Chetti traditions, which are not taught in school.

On romance, if a young Chetti couple wants to start dating, the girl will introduce the boy to the parents first. Some parents prefer the couple to be chaperoned during dates.

Many residents in Gajah Berang are concerned that the Chetti culture is not practised as much as before.

"If a Chetti lives in the village, he or she can practise the customs," said Arunasalam. "If not, it will be very hard as there is no community support."

The Chetti museum in the village is a good place to learn about the community.

Amuthavathi Pillay, 41, was at the Chetti museum when a group of tourists dropped by. They asked her to show them around.

"I found myself swelling with pride as I explained the history and Chetti way of life."
 

Malacca Chettis, Custodians of Chetti culture

August 14th, 2007
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By : RINA DE SILVA
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Kavindran Pillay helps out during temple activities at the Sri Maha Mariamman Temple in Malacca. NST pictures by Owee Ah Chun.
Kavindran Pillay helps out during temple activities at the Sri Maha Mariamman Temple in Malacca. NST pictures by Owee Ah Chun.

For generations, the Chetti community was tucked away in its own little world of ancient traditions in a tiny village in Gajah Berang, Malacca. But gradually, it started opening its doors to the world and charmed visitors. RINA DE SILVA traces its history and looks at its hopes for the future.

A Chetti family in their traditional attire in the early days.
A Chetti family in their traditional attire in the early days.

NOTHING would make S.T. Rajah Jan Tamby Pillay, 54, move out of his Chetti village in Gajah Berang, Malacca ? not even the frequent flash floods.

"I cannot leave. This is my kampung and of the generations before me," he said.

Many of his neighbours are also against moving away from the village for any reason.

But many more have left, for the sake of space, privacy, better educational opportunities and career prospects. Some have also left the country.
Those who remain hold on tight to their community to keep the culture alive and practise ancient customs and traditions taught by their forefathers.

The Chetti community still practises its tradition of praying to ancestors.

Like previous generations, women who live in the village try to stay indoors at all times. A female teenager drinks raw egg and sesame oil when she comes of age.

A male child would have his ears pierced by the age of 2. Herbal plants are used to cure skin diseases.

The community is known as Indian Peranakan, the product of marriages between early Indian traders and locals over 500 years ago.

They are staunch Hindus who observe their community’s traditions strictly.

Today, one can still see elderly women wearing sarong and loose kebaya tops.

The community continues to converse in Malay. Many cannot speak any Indian language. Those who do, learnt it on their own.

Despite their strict adherence to ritual and tradition, the community in Gajah Berang is shrinking. Only 60 families are left, half of what it used to be 50 years ago.

In the early days, many of them married their cousins just to maintain strong community bonds. Today, half of the Chetti community in Gajah Berang are related to one another.

Those who did leave, love their culture but wanted space and a new environment to seek better opportunities for their families.

G. Meenachi Govindasamy Naiker Rajah, 75, is one of them.

She lived in the community for over 50 years before moving out with her late husband Sathasivam Pillay and children more than 20 years ago.

She felt the community was not the ideal environment for her children who desired a better life.

As the community was poor, many did not pursue their education after Form Five. Some stopped after Form Three.

In the early days, many of the men were despatch riders, clerks and postmen.. Women traditionally were housewives.

Mohan Pillay and his wife S. Vijaya Lakshimi also moved out of the village after they got married in 1976 ? partly for work reasons and partly to make way for Mohan’s brother to raise a family.

Their present house is 10km away from the village.

"We also wanted our own space and privacy to raise our family," said Mohan..

But the couple are fond of the village and help the community whenever they can.

Mohan is the MIC leader for the Chetti village. He fights for the rights of the community, which traditionally accepted what was given to them without much fuss.

Whether they live in the community or not, most Chetti families hang mango leaves at the entrance of their homes as a symbol of their identity.

Not all the traditions are followed strictly.

It has been decades since a Chetti woman gave birth at home or a young girl stayed at home for 44 days after reaching puberty.

However, many Chetti women follow the ancient tradition of not bathing for 16 days after giving birth. After that, she is only allowed to bathe twice a month.

It is an extraordinary bath. The woman wraps herself in a sarong, pours hot water over the head while sitting on a stool with the body smeared in a blended mix of lemongrass, red onions and betel leaves with coriander powder.

She has this bath in the afternoon and it is over in 10 minutes.

As the country developed during the post-Merdeka days, more Chetti women started to hold jobs.

With that, their dressing also changed but they remained modest. Today’s working women, like kindergarten teacher K. Vimala Devi, prefer wearing salwar kameez.

"I cannot imagine running around after the children in a sarong and kebaya."

Saris are also worn during weddings and temple ceremonies.

The community used to be reserved about sharing their customs and traditions with the outside world but they have been more open in the past 20 years.

A museum was set up in Gajah Berang next to the Sri Maha Mariamman Temple to allow locals and tourists to get a glimpse of the Chetti way of life.

It is built like a traditional Chetti house complete with a living room, bride’s room and a prayer room.

The kitchen and eating quarters are separated from the house.

Being open to the outside world has also made them curious about other races and religions. They have learnt to respect other communities.

On the morning of Wesak Day, the Chetti community would bow in front of the Seck Kia Eenh Vihara Buddhist temple a few buildings away from the Sri Maha Mariamman Temple.

It is also not uncommon to see Chetti people prostrating in front of altars in Catholic homes or statues of saints or even attending Good Friday mass.

The community is worried that the traditions will not be observed by the younger generation in the future.

Chetti village head K. Arunasalam, 48, said Chetti culture was not followed by today’s young Chettis.

He and his wife, Vimala Devi, are teaching their children what their ancestors passed down.

"It is important to pass the knowledge to the next generation otherwise it will be lost," said Arunasalam.

Vimala Devi said she encourages her children to take part in temple activities and ceremonies.

"I love my culture but I worry whether it will still be around later. If one does not live among the Chettis, he or she may not be able to preserve the culture," she said.

Arunasalam said the community was trying to make room in the village for Chetti families who have moved out in the past.

"Many have expressed a desire to return but have no houses to live in any more," he said.

Rajah said youngsters should preserve the culture taught by their elders.

"This is the only such culture in the world. They should be proud of it.

"It is not difficult to preserve your culture if you are sincere. It is more important than one’s own happiness," he said.

Tell me what you’ll do with US $1Million

August 14th, 2007
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I was tagged by Rani. Her topic is “Tell me what you'll do with a $ 1Million (1, 000, 000)”.
 
And following her lead, I'll conveniently convert the US moolah into good old Ringgit Malaysia, which is about RM3.4 million. So, after a long and hard thought, I'll do the following:
 
1m – set up a trust fund for tamil schools and use the investment profits to help as many schools as possible
1m – set up a family trust fund to support future generation and family/relatives
500k – buy a house (preferably semi-dee), or buy a land and build a house.
400k – invest in commercial property
100k – invest in stocks
150k – get a car for wife. she has a thing for toyotas nowadays, so probably the altis or camry.
50k – send wife for around the world tour for few months. well, i'll try to join 🙂
85k – get a car.
15k – get some camera lenses and camera
20k – spend for parents and relatives
20k – get a home entertainment system
60k – settle housing loan
 
and now i'm tagging Then, Mahen, Amutha and Praveen.
Up to them to change the topic or continue with the same one!
 

Foreign workers outnumber indian community

August 13th, 2007
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The article below is from today's Berita Harian – special report. It focuses on foreign workers outnumbering the Malaysian Indians. There are 1.91 million foreign workers and only 1.88 million Indians. So, there are roughly 30,000 more foreigners now, not including the estimate 400,000 illegal workers and another 10,000 in immigration detention depots.
 
According to the report as well, the Indian community's growth is slow due to late marriages and reduction in fertility among Indian women. However, the foreigners are expected to increase due to the demands for labor in 9th Malaysian Plan, with an estimated 1.2 million new workers needed.
 
In 2009, it is expected that foreign workers will be more than 2 million, while Indian population will be at 1.93 million. According to Immigration Department, there's an influx of 7,000 new foreign workers every month and is expected to increase regularly.
 
The report also stated that the current population stands at 27.17 million (Malays – 13.77m/50.68%; Chinese – 6.3m/23.19%; Other Bumiputras – 2.9m/10.67%; Indians – 1.88m/6.90%; others – 326,000/1.20%; foreigners – 1.91m/7.03%)
 
In 2009, the population is expected to reach 28.306 million (Malays – 14.409m/50.90%; Chinese – 6.437m/22.74%; Other Bumiputras – 3.128m/11.05%; Indians – 1.939m/6.85%; others – 340,000/1.20%; foreigners – 2.051m/7.25%)
 
Q: What does this comparison mean?
 
A. time to move on to greener pastures?
B. Time to reduce foreign workers?
C. Foreigners will start to demand more rights/privileges?
D. Foreigners will overtake Indian-monopolied crime rates?
E. Country have to fork out more $$ to handle foreigner workers – hospitals, public transport, schools, housing, etc.?
F. We are now officially "lain -lain"?

Laporan Khas: Pekerja asing melebihi masyarakat India

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Oleh Azrul Affandi Sobry

KUALA LUMPUR: Jumlah pekerja asing dalam pelbagai sektor di negara ini kini lebih ramai daripada masyarakat India, iaitu kaum ketiga terbesar di Malaysia.

Berdasarkan statistik sehingga 30 Jun lalu yang dikeluarkan Jabatan Imigresen dan Bahagian Perangkaan Demografi Jabatan Perangkaan Malaysia, jumlah pekerja asing mencecah 1.91 juta manakala masyarakat India 1.88 juta.

 
Jumlah itu tidak termasuk lebih 400,000 pendatang asing yang dipercayai memasuki negara ini secara haram serta hampir 10,000 tahanan di depoh imigresen.

Malah, menurut sumber Bahagian Perangkaan Demografi, pertambahan penduduk India di negara ini agak perlahan berikutan beberapa faktor termasuk pengurangan tahap kesuburan wanita dan perkahwinan dalam usia lewat.

 
Pertambahan pekerja asing pula dijangka meningkat secara mendadak berikutan pelaksanaan pelbagai projek pembangunan sepanjang Rancangan Malaysia Kesembilan (RMK-9).

Statistik unjuran kadar pertambahan penduduk menunjukkan menjelang 2009 pekerja asing di negara ini akan melebihi dua juta orang, sedangkan masyarakat India ketika itu hanya seramai 1.93 juta.

Kenyataan itu disokong statistik Jabatan Imigresen yang menunjukkan pengambilan pekerja asing bertambah 7,000 orang setiap bulan dan dijangka terus meningkat dari semasa ke semasa.

Unjuran itu juga menunjukkan penduduk Malaysia kini berjumlah 27.17 juta orang dengan masyarakat Melayu masih menjadi kaum majoriti, iaitu 13.77 juta, Bumiputera lain (2.9 juta), Cina (6.3 juta), India (1.88 juta), lain-lain (326,000) dan bukan warga negara atau pekerja asing ( 1.91 juta).

Pada 2009 pula penduduk negara ini dijangka meningkat kepada 28.306 juta orang dengan masyarakat Melayu berjumlah 14.409 juta, Bumiputera lain (3.128 juta), Cina (6.437 juta), India (1.939 juta), lain-lain (340,000) dan bukan warga negara atau pekerja asing ( 2.051 juta).

Timbalan Menteri Sumber Manusia, Datuk Abdul Rahman Bakar, berkata pertambahan pekerja asing memang tidak dapat dielakkan, terutama dalam RMK-9 yang memerlukan lebih 1.2 juta pekerja baru bagi memastikan semua sektor dapat digerakkan dengan lancar.