Posts Tagged ‘Religion’

Couple dissolves marriage after wife embraces Islam

August 14th, 2007
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problem is, is the divorce via syariah court binding on the non-muslim couple and does the court has the authority? notice that the husband had filed for divorce in civil court on his behalf. of course he won't want to be caught committing bigamy if he marries again, if the registration dept does not acknowledge the syariah courts ruling.
 
thus, the couple have to divorce twice 🙂
 
anyway, this was a "happy" divorce; not one filled with children custody claims and forced conversion of children, plus the lady is the one who converted.

Couple dissolves marriage after wife embraces Islam
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By M. MAGESWARI

PETALING JAYA: A teacher and a hotel manager became the first couple in the country to dissolve their marriage amicably through the Syariah lower court after she embraced Islam.  

Today, Aishah Sandhera Abdullah @ Sandhera Debbie Kimbi, 27, from Sibu, Sarawak, applied to the Syariah lower court here to dissolve her marriage because of the change of religion.  

She made her application under Section 46(2) of the Islamic Family Law Enactment (Selangor) 2003.

The court granted the application to dissolve the marriage.  

In confirming the dissolution of the marriage for her, Syariah court judge Ghazali Ahmad praised the couple for settling the matter good-naturedly.  

According to the statement of claim, Aishah, who is the plaintiff, had married Reynolds Chua Guan Teck, 28, on May 5, 2004.  

The marriage was registered under the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976 as both were Christians during the period. The couple has no children.

Aishah converted to Islam on Feb 2 while the defendant was still a Christian.

The couple then could not live together under Islamic law because of the difference in religions.

She filed the summons and statement of claim on Aug 1 for the dissolution of the marriage.  

The defendant had filed a divorce petition on July 20 at the Shah Alam High Court (civil) under the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act.

The Shah Alam Court has not set a date to hear the divorce matter.

Speaking to reporters later, Aishah's lawyer Zainul Rijal Abu Bakar said the case set a precedent for couples to dissolve their marriages amicably when one party converts to Islam.

He said such settlements should be encouraged as it resulted in a win-win situation for both.  

Earlier, Aishah informed Ghazali that she would attend the divorce case proceeding for Chua at the Shah Alam High Court.

Malacca Chettis, Custodians of Chetti culture

August 14th, 2007
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By : RINA DE SILVA
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Kavindran Pillay helps out during temple activities at the Sri Maha Mariamman Temple in Malacca. NST pictures by Owee Ah Chun.
Kavindran Pillay helps out during temple activities at the Sri Maha Mariamman Temple in Malacca. NST pictures by Owee Ah Chun.

For generations, the Chetti community was tucked away in its own little world of ancient traditions in a tiny village in Gajah Berang, Malacca. But gradually, it started opening its doors to the world and charmed visitors. RINA DE SILVA traces its history and looks at its hopes for the future.

A Chetti family in their traditional attire in the early days.
A Chetti family in their traditional attire in the early days.

NOTHING would make S.T. Rajah Jan Tamby Pillay, 54, move out of his Chetti village in Gajah Berang, Malacca ? not even the frequent flash floods.

"I cannot leave. This is my kampung and of the generations before me," he said.

Many of his neighbours are also against moving away from the village for any reason.

But many more have left, for the sake of space, privacy, better educational opportunities and career prospects. Some have also left the country.
Those who remain hold on tight to their community to keep the culture alive and practise ancient customs and traditions taught by their forefathers.

The Chetti community still practises its tradition of praying to ancestors.

Like previous generations, women who live in the village try to stay indoors at all times. A female teenager drinks raw egg and sesame oil when she comes of age.

A male child would have his ears pierced by the age of 2. Herbal plants are used to cure skin diseases.

The community is known as Indian Peranakan, the product of marriages between early Indian traders and locals over 500 years ago.

They are staunch Hindus who observe their community’s traditions strictly.

Today, one can still see elderly women wearing sarong and loose kebaya tops.

The community continues to converse in Malay. Many cannot speak any Indian language. Those who do, learnt it on their own.

Despite their strict adherence to ritual and tradition, the community in Gajah Berang is shrinking. Only 60 families are left, half of what it used to be 50 years ago.

In the early days, many of them married their cousins just to maintain strong community bonds. Today, half of the Chetti community in Gajah Berang are related to one another.

Those who did leave, love their culture but wanted space and a new environment to seek better opportunities for their families.

G. Meenachi Govindasamy Naiker Rajah, 75, is one of them.

She lived in the community for over 50 years before moving out with her late husband Sathasivam Pillay and children more than 20 years ago.

She felt the community was not the ideal environment for her children who desired a better life.

As the community was poor, many did not pursue their education after Form Five. Some stopped after Form Three.

In the early days, many of the men were despatch riders, clerks and postmen.. Women traditionally were housewives.

Mohan Pillay and his wife S. Vijaya Lakshimi also moved out of the village after they got married in 1976 ? partly for work reasons and partly to make way for Mohan’s brother to raise a family.

Their present house is 10km away from the village.

"We also wanted our own space and privacy to raise our family," said Mohan..

But the couple are fond of the village and help the community whenever they can.

Mohan is the MIC leader for the Chetti village. He fights for the rights of the community, which traditionally accepted what was given to them without much fuss.

Whether they live in the community or not, most Chetti families hang mango leaves at the entrance of their homes as a symbol of their identity.

Not all the traditions are followed strictly.

It has been decades since a Chetti woman gave birth at home or a young girl stayed at home for 44 days after reaching puberty.

However, many Chetti women follow the ancient tradition of not bathing for 16 days after giving birth. After that, she is only allowed to bathe twice a month.

It is an extraordinary bath. The woman wraps herself in a sarong, pours hot water over the head while sitting on a stool with the body smeared in a blended mix of lemongrass, red onions and betel leaves with coriander powder.

She has this bath in the afternoon and it is over in 10 minutes.

As the country developed during the post-Merdeka days, more Chetti women started to hold jobs.

With that, their dressing also changed but they remained modest. Today’s working women, like kindergarten teacher K. Vimala Devi, prefer wearing salwar kameez.

"I cannot imagine running around after the children in a sarong and kebaya."

Saris are also worn during weddings and temple ceremonies.

The community used to be reserved about sharing their customs and traditions with the outside world but they have been more open in the past 20 years.

A museum was set up in Gajah Berang next to the Sri Maha Mariamman Temple to allow locals and tourists to get a glimpse of the Chetti way of life.

It is built like a traditional Chetti house complete with a living room, bride’s room and a prayer room.

The kitchen and eating quarters are separated from the house.

Being open to the outside world has also made them curious about other races and religions. They have learnt to respect other communities.

On the morning of Wesak Day, the Chetti community would bow in front of the Seck Kia Eenh Vihara Buddhist temple a few buildings away from the Sri Maha Mariamman Temple.

It is also not uncommon to see Chetti people prostrating in front of altars in Catholic homes or statues of saints or even attending Good Friday mass.

The community is worried that the traditions will not be observed by the younger generation in the future.

Chetti village head K. Arunasalam, 48, said Chetti culture was not followed by today’s young Chettis.

He and his wife, Vimala Devi, are teaching their children what their ancestors passed down.

"It is important to pass the knowledge to the next generation otherwise it will be lost," said Arunasalam.

Vimala Devi said she encourages her children to take part in temple activities and ceremonies.

"I love my culture but I worry whether it will still be around later. If one does not live among the Chettis, he or she may not be able to preserve the culture," she said.

Arunasalam said the community was trying to make room in the village for Chetti families who have moved out in the past.

"Many have expressed a desire to return but have no houses to live in any more," he said.

Rajah said youngsters should preserve the culture taught by their elders.

"This is the only such culture in the world. They should be proud of it.

"It is not difficult to preserve your culture if you are sincere. It is more important than one’s own happiness," he said.

The MCCBCHST presents a statement to Parliamentary Selected Community on National Unity

August 9th, 2007
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The MCCBCHST presents a statement to Parliamentary Selected Community on National Unity

The Malaysian Consultative Council of Buddhism, Christianity, Hinduism, Sikhism, and Taoism led by its President Datuk A.Vaithilingam and accompanied by Mr. Ng Hong Pau (Buddhist), Rev. Dr. Hermen Shastri (Christian), Mr.K Shanmuga (Hindu), Sardar Jagir Singh (Sikh) and Mr Tan Hoe Chieow (Tao) met the Parliamentary Select Committee, Chaired by the Minister in Prime Minister Department YB DatuK Dr. Maximus Ongkili.

The Parliamentary Select Committee was made up of members from various political parties including UMNO, MCA, MIC, Gerekan, DAP, PAS and others.

Please read the statement which has been presented to the Parliamentary Select Committee.

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Statement to Parliamentary Select Committee on National Unity
 

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Assemblyman Rajoo laments dwindling number of tamil schools

August 9th, 2007
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While other talk about relocating an under-populated school, we always agree to merger of schools. Of course the number of school will reduce la!!!
 
Protect religion and culture, Tamil teachers told

HINDU temples and Tamil schools reflect the character of the Indian community, who must safeguard this identity or lose it forever, said Malaysia Nanban. 

Quoting Perak state executive councillor and Hutan Melintang state assemblyman Datuk G. Rajoo, the paper said the community must step up measures to protect their religion as well as their arts, culture and the Tamil language. 

Towards this end, there must be more activities to generate interest among the young, he told a gathering of retired Tamil teachers in the Lower Perak district at Teluk Intan on Tuesday. 

Rajoo lamented that the number of Tamil schools in Perak had dwindled in recent years from 154 previously to only 134 now, adding that parents had a duty to send their children to these schools to keep Tamil education alive. 

students argue on NEP during leaders summit

August 7th, 2007
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another news that was carried on NST only. this one focuses on the discussion during NEP topic. according to the report the participants were "mostly Malaysian students studying in foreign universities." looks like a brave bunch of students.
 
from NST:
 
FIRST MALAYSIAN STUDENT LEADERS SUMMIT 2007: Question on NEP sets off exchange
 

KUALA LUMPUR: A talk on the New Economic Policy by Prof Datuk Dr Shamsul Amri Baharudin went smoothly ? until question time.

Participants of the Malaysian Student Leaders Summit 2007 then ripped into him, accusing him of skirting the issue.

The Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia anthropology lecturer’s topic was "New Economic Policy ? Is it still relevant?" The students felt he had not answered the question.

One student walked up and said: "We have been listening to you for almost an hour and, finally, when you came to the question in the topic, you dropped it like a hot potato."

Shamsul replied: "Unless you were sleeping, the answer is actually on the last slide that I showed. We have two solutions, either we retain the status quo or we change the Constitution."
The student was not satisfied. "You haven’t answered the question. In your opinion, is it still relevant?"

Shamsul said: "The question of whether it is relevant or not is not up to us to decide, but up to the people to decide. You should push the wakil rakyat (elected representatives) for a change. I challenge you to ask him to change."

The student persisted: "As an academic, what is your opinion?"

Shamsul said the NEP’s "provision is still there and Malaysians should look at it from every angle".

"Every part has to be negotiated. For instance, we still need a work permit to work in Sabah or Sarawak.

"My suggestion is that we need to look at every part before deciding if it is still relevant."

He received loud applause from the floor for this.

In his talk, Shamsul gave the background to the Constitution and how the NEP was created. He also spoke about the racial riots of May 13, 1969, even relating his personal experience.

His last slide ended with the question: "Is the NEP relevant?"

The participants also applauded fellow students who asked tough questions and also when several students suggested that the NEP be extended to poor Malaysians, regardless of race or religion.

The two-day summit was attended by mostly Malaysian students studying in foreign universities..