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A family ripped apart

May 16th, 2007
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Muslim or Hindu? A family ripped apart (Malaysiakini)      
Monday, 14 May 2007
 
She wants her husband and their seven children to embrace Islam. But her husband is adamant about remaining a Hindu till his death. After 21 years of marriage, the family of rubber-tappers P Marimuthu and Raimah Bibi is being torn apart for religious reasons.
 
The matter became a national issue when the Selangor Islamic authorities separated Raimah and six children from Marimuthu. He then turned to the civil court for custody of the children aged between four and 14.

Raimah, 40, later agreed to hand over custody to her husband. Although, she is now housed in a nearby village, she visits her children and husband regularly.

Malaysiakini met the couple at their house in Ulu Yam, Selangor, to get their story.

In an emotionally charged exchange, both husband and wife accused one another for their predicament.

Raimah claimed that she was “misled” into signing the custody agreement and wants to take action against her husband’s lawyer, Karpal Singh.

“I am illiterate, and my husband’s lawyer did not explain the letter to me in detail. He told me to sign and I signed it. I am going to file a case against him. Now, I don’t have any rights over the children, you have all the rights,” an upset Raimah told her husband.

“Nobody comes to see me, not even the children. Even if the children are sick, only my husband can take them to the clinic. When the children were with me, many people came to see us. They gave rice and other things. They gave RM150 for expenses. But since the court case ended, nobody has come.”

Raimah remained unconvinced when her husband explained that the letter was read to her in court and that she was still their mother, no matter what.

“What more do you want? You get to visit them. I have only been given custody of the children. After they turn 18, they can decide for themselves,” said Marimuthu, 44, to his wife.

“Is seeing them enough?” retorted Raimah in tears.

“When they are above 18 and suppose they want to follow my religion, would you allow them? I was the one who got cheated. I was stupid to sign the (custody) letter.
“He (Marimuthu) wanted the children and I signed the letter, and now his problem is solved but I am left alone. I have just have one daughter staying with me but I have no rights over her either.”

Mayhem over formalities

Asked if he knew that his wife is a Muslim when they got married, Marimuthu said her identity card states her name as ‘Raimah Bibi a/p (or ‘daughter of’) Noordin’ and not binti (the Muslim equivalent).

“In her MyKad (which she obtained recently), her name is stated as Raimah binti Noordin and her religion as Islam. This is what caused all the problems,” he said.

Raimah, who is shown wearing a tudung (head scarf) in the MyKad photograph, said she has been a Muslim from birth, but her husband claimed that she never informed him about this.

“He said ‘if you had told me this, I would not have married you’. In the old identity card, all my family members have a/p (typically used for Indian Malaysian names) instead of binti.

“I got mine changed to binti a few months back but he (Marimuthu) claims that someone had added it. How can he not know I am a Muslim? Both Raimah and Nordin are Muslim names.”

Asked why their marriage was not legally registered, Marimuthu replied that it was not an important thing to do at the time.

Raimah revealed that she had approached the religious authorities on her own accord and informed them that she was a Muslim. However, her husband does not believe this.

Asked how the problem could be solved, Ramiah replied: “I already told them that I am a Muslim. How can I turn back again now, especially after the whole country knows the case? They (the Islamic authorities) will not allow me to turn back.”

On why she decided to do this after more than two decades of marriage, she said: “I did this because I thought all of us would become Muslims. I never thought he (Marimuthu) would do all this (take the matter to court). If I had known, I wouldn’t have revealed that I'm Muslim.”

Raimah also disclosed that she had not informed her husband of her intention to meet the religious authorities.

Plight of family

Marimuthu ruled out the possibility of converting so that the family can live together again. He also claimed that he was offered rewards such as a loan and land in return for his conversion.

“I was born a Hindu and that’s how I wish to remain. If this question was posed to me six years ago, I might have agreed because I was forced to sleep with my family on the streets when our squatter house in Ampang was demolished.

“But everyone, including Malay leaders that I approached for help, wanted money in return. Nobody helped me, so why I should convert?”

On whether he would reconsider his decision for the sake of his children, Marimuthu was firm about raising them as Hindus and said he is prepared to face any hardship that arises.

The rubber tapper, who earns between RM500 and RM1,200 a month depending on the weather, said: “I am confident I can take care of them even if I have to do it alone. I am content with the current arrangement, where my wife comes and visits the children.

“When the children are old enough, let them decide which religion they want to follow. They (the religious authorities) have separated me from my wife in the name of religion, but they cannot separate her from the children. For that, I am happy.”

Marimuthu claimed that, prior to this problem, religion had never been issue between him and his wife.

“No matter what problems we faced, we were happy together.”

In the past, he said, Raimah lived like a Hindu and was not averse to frequenting temples.

Recalling the day that his wife and children were taken away, Marimuthu said he suffered from mental and emotional anguish.

“I couldn’t sleep or eat. I was like a mad man. It is this that drove an uneducated man like me to seek help from DAP and go right up to Parliament. I was afraid that they would convert my children,” he added.

Raimah admitted that she lied to Marimuthu that she was going out to get medicine, but had gone to the Islamic affairs office instead.

“Contrary to what my husband thinks, I did not do this because I wanted to leave him. I still want to be with him. But he thinks someone has influenced me to do this,” she said.

“I always wanted to do this (return to being a practising Muslim). I had this idea for a long time, but did not know how to go about it. Although, I went to temples and performed prayers, I could not forget my religion.”

 

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New case-Hindu man seeks wife’s release from Islamic reform centre

May 14th, 2007
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Hindu man seeks wife’s release from Islamic reform centre BERNAMA
http://www.nst.com.my/Current_News/NST/Monday/NewsBreak/20070514180725/Article/index_html
SHAH ALAM, MON:
A Hindu man today filed a habeas corpus application to seek the release of his wife, whom he said was illegally detained by the superintendent of the Baitul Aman Faith Reform Centre since Jan 8. » Read more: New case-Hindu man seeks wife’s release from Islamic reform centre

New book on charismatic preacher Sant Sohan

May 14th, 2007
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New book on charismatic preacher Sant Sohan
http://www.thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2007/5/14/nation/17704283&sec=nation
By SIMRIT KAUR
PETALING JAYA: When Saran Singh Sidhu, 62, was compiling a book on the life of Malaysia’s most revered Sikh missionary, Sant Baba Sohan Singh Ji, he felt guided by the holy man.
“I don’t think this book could have been written without the divine help of Sant Sohan,” said the retiree who was commissioned by Gurdwara Sahib Malacca and the Sant Sohan Singh Ji Malacca Memorial Society to compile the book.
“He was a very charismatic preacher and had a great sense of humour. He could mesmerise the congregation with his beautiful lectures on the Sikh religion,” said Saran Singh who had met the holy man many times.
Saran Singh travelled to Sant Sohan’s birthplace in India – the farming village of Chathewalla, in the Bathinda district in Punjab and interviewed his relatives for the book Sant Baba Sohan Singh Ji of Malacca (1902-1972): His Life and Times.
It is partly based on two previous books published in Punjabi – Safal Jeevan – Sant Sohan Singh Ji Melaka written by the late Tara Singh Hitaishi and a compilation of Sant Sohan’s lectures, Maan Yogh Sajjano, published by the late Datuk T. Mahima Singh Dhaliwal.
Written with divine help: Author Saran Singh with his book, Sant Baba Sohan Singh Ji of Malacca (1902- 1972): His Life and Times. The book is available at a subsidised cost of RM50 plus postage. As Sant Sohan was also a noted herbalist, the book also features his personal accounts about the numerous remedies attributed to him.
Every year, tens of thousands of Sikhs from all over the world gather for prayers in Malacca to mark Sant Sohan’s death anniversary.
He was made a Sikh priest or granthi at the Malacca Gurdwara Sahib in 1927, a position he held until his death on May 24,1972.
The three-day prayers will begin on Friday. The highlight will be the launch of Saran Singh’s book on Saturday at 4pm.
This will be followed by a ground-breaking ceremony for a museum devoted to the memory of Sant Sohan.
“He has made an outstanding contribution to Sikhs in Malaysia and Singapore through his religious discourse and service to the community,” said Saran Singh who previously authored Sikh Gurdwaras in Malaysia and Singapore: An Illustrated History 1873-2003.
The 465-page book, Sant Baba Sohan Singh Ji of Malacca (1902-1972): His Life and Times is available from the Gurdwara Sahib Malacca/Sant Sohan Singh Ji Malacca Memorial Society at 150-A, Jalan Temenggong, 75000 Malacca at a subsidised cost of RM50 plus postage.
For information, e-mail info@gurdwarasahibmelaka.com

Report on Kg Medan – UUM study

May 14th, 2007
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“”Just as we have Mara for Malays, we should establish something for non-Malays. We must make sure they have a fair shot at getting educated.”
hmmm…
In short, help the poor..all of them; not just some of them based on race.
Spotlight :Poverty led to Kg Medan clashes By : Aniza Damis
http://www.nst.com.my/Current_News/NST/Monday/National/20070514081411/Article/index_html
The troubles of the past few days seem distant for this Malay woman and her Indian friend as they cycle past policemen in Kampung Medan in Petaling Jaya on March 14, 2001.
For such a multiethnic country, Malaysia has been blessed with little ethnic strife. In 50 years of independence, the country has had only three big ethnic clashes. The first — May 13, 1969 — a ‘wake-up call’, is the elephant in the room that no one talks about. The second, Kampung Rawa in 1998, was upsetting, but relatively non-violent. The third, Kampung Medan in 2001, resulted in six deaths. A study, five years later, on Kampung Medan has just been completed. And, as ANIZA DAMIS finds out, these ethnic clashes are symptoms of poverty and social neglect THE story of Kampung Medan is a sad one. On March 9, 2001, a social disagreement between two groups, Malay and Indian, led to racial clashes that took three weeks to calm down. The final tally of that incident: Six dead and more than 400 detained. For Malaysians, who pride themselves on being multiethnic, tolerant and more than happy to celebrate the festivities of other races, the flare-up in Kampung Medan was a blip that marred the country’s harmony. To the outsider, the incident at Kampung Medan is but an example of the “undercurrents” that run beneath the country’s multiethnic makeup, ready to be let loose by those who would let go of their self-control and revert to the laws of the jungle. But is the issue really about racial differences, and are Malay- sians inherently racist? Associate Professor Dr Mansor Mohd Noor doesn’t think the problem is racial.. The problem, he said, was poverty. “If you are poor, you have the same problems. This is our problem, not a Malay or Indian problem,” he added. Having led the Universiti Utara Malaysia team into two studies on the Kampung Medan incident — the first time soon after the incident, and the second time at the end of last year – Mansor said Kampung Medan was a socio-economic problem that manifested itself in racial terms. “Even though the conflict seem-ed to be racially-based, issues of urban poverty, marginalisation and social neglect were the factors that caused the conflict,” said last year’s report, commissioned by the National Unity and Integration Department. “Kampung Medan was a chain of problems, not just one problem,” said Mansor, who is UUM’s Public Management and Law faculty deputy dean. Poverty and marginalisation, he said, led to a breakdown in society. “The people of Kampung Medan had no social life and no social activity. If you reach that level, it will explode. “The people who were involved in that incident came from the low-income group. They had poor self-esteem, no social activities, no link between them and the government, and no link with the community.” What’s even sadder, he said, was that the residents were “double victims”. Not only were they poor, jobless and marginalised, but they were also the victims of violent ethnic conflict. The study — by a team comprising Mansor, Associate Professor Dr Puvenesvary Ravantharanathe Muthiah, Mohd Ainuddin Iskandar Lee Abdullah, and Mohd Dino Khairi Sarifuddin — surveyed the racial unity of residents of Kampung Medan. Among others, the survey looked at problems in daily life and at the national level to see whether the problems that the residents faced were ethnic-based, or whether they were problems that they all shared, irrespective of ethnicity. A questionnaire was answered by 87 Malays and 57 Indians. Most were from the low-income group. Out of seven problems the two ethnic groups faced in their lives, cost of living was the primary concern for both races. Racial problems featured sixth for Malays, and fifth for Indians. National problems that concerned the respondents were corruption, social problems, joblessness and leadership crisis, not religious issues or racial problems, which were considered unimportant. And problems that plagued the village consisted of social problems among youth, lack of infrastructure and poverty.
And in challenges in daily life, although cost of living and welfare and schooling of their children were a worry, dealing with the government was the greatest problem for both ethnic groups. Although the percentage of those who reported these problems might only comprise between 20 and 30 per cent of the Kampung Medan population, the report surmised that the existence of these problems meant that respondents lived in an environment of poverty, with a culture of being poor and marginalised from mainstream society. “This was a millstone around the neck of these residents, which prevented them from achieving social mobility,” said the report. “This might result in this neglected group becoming anti-government, with a tendency (kecenderungan) to solving their problems in an extremist and militant manner.” Although the incident was linked or attributed to ethnicity, it did not involve the Chinese community. This, the study said, “shows that the country’s success in developing the nation to the extent that poverty management among Malays and Chinese has reduced the risk of conflict between the two ethnic communities”. Mansor said rich Malays, Chinese and Indians could use the public space to deal with their problems, but poor Malays and Indians did not have access to this luxury. So, instead, they expressed themselves in terms of ethnicity and religion. In a multi-ethnic community, those who are poor, jobless and marginalised tend to resort to ethnic grouping to defend their own interests. As a result, the ethnic dimension is raised, leading to tension and violence. So, it is this problem of development that is considered to be the cause of the ethnic conflict, and not ethnicity itself. “(The) Kampung Medan (incident) is a problem of the urban poor,” said Mansor, adding that the potential for discord could be shared by other places with the same socio-economic problems as those faced by the residents of Kampung Medan. In Malaysia, a social conflict can turn to an ethnic and religious conflict, starting as a misunderstanding, then escalating and triggering rage that will end in violent conflict. Because of this, said the report, attention needed to be given by the government. Mansor said: “To have national unity, order must come first. We need to aim for zero conflict. But to have zero conflict, we must solve the problem of poverty.” A strong government policy was needed to tackle poverty.
Building low-cost flats and relocating squatters to them is a superficial solution that doesn’t address the problem of pulling the poor out of poverty. “If we want social stability, the poor must be managed. There must be access to education, community-based activities and micro-credit.” The only way to tackle this, he said, was that there must be government sponsorship. “The government must support education for the poor, perhaps by providing boarding schools for them. “Just as we have Mara for Malays, we should establish something for non-Malays. We must make sure they have a fair shot at getting educated.” In addition, a community-based approach should be implemented to make sure the poor have access to social activities and recreation, and opportunity for healthy interaction. On this, Mansor said, the National Unity and Integration Department was “on the right footing” by introducing Rukun Tetangga branches and keeping an eye out on conflict areas. But, he said, tackling social problems like Kampung Medan required the help of all government agencies, especially the Women, Family and Community Development Ministry and the Youth and Sports Ministry. For Mansor, race and ethnicity were not stumbling blocks or problems. “Don’t look at it in black-and-white. The tremendous colours that Malaysia has indicate harmony rather than conflict. We should celebrate diversity.”
Green is okay, yellow is worrying, red is dangerous
IS the measure of unity to be found in peace, where a nation’s multiethnic citizens do not fight, or is it to be measured by friendship?
Some sociologists would argue that the polarisation over which we wring our hands, is in fact not polarisation at all, but just the status quo.
“Polarisation is when people who were once together are now apart. But, if you look back at the patterns of Malaysian society, you will see that Malays have always grouped with Malays in their residential and social arrangements, and so too with the Indians and Chinese,” said National Unity and Integration Department director-general Datuk Azman Amin Hassan.
This arrangement, he said, might not be some people’s idea of unity, but was relatively peaceful. And this is the basic level of unity.
“There are other sociologists who believe that Malaysians should mix, that is, live in mixed neighbourhoods, go to schools which are mixed — and eventually, be in mixed marriages. This is another way of looking at unity.
“Neither theory is right or wrong, but each requires a different approach.”
For a long time, unity was measured according to the perception of whether people thought that they were united.
But, said Azman, the instrument for measurement of perception had always been a problem: How do you measure perception?
This is why the department is now focusing on conflict.
“Conflict is easier to measure,” said Azman.
The department has set up a “Traffic Light” system of measuring and pro-actively managing conflict.
In the system, there are three levels of conflict: Green, yellow (amber) and red.
Green is when an issue is raised, but there is nothing to be alarmed about. People might have disagreements, and there might be minor physical altercations.
Yellow is when an occasion has been boiling for some time, or it occurs several times in a short period. At this level, the physical altercation might result in serious injury.
If a situation reaches yellow, then the department will intervene, usually by having Rukun Tetangga (neighbourhood watch) step in, mediate and calm the situation.
The system, which is part of the National Unity and Integration Action Plan, has been up since June.
“As much as possible, we don’t want it to even reach yellow,” he said, adding that the issue that concerned the department involved the controversy over apostasy and religious conversions, which lies between green and yellow.
Finally, the extreme is red. This is when there is serious injury or someone is killed.
In using this tracking system, the department relies on Rukun Tetangga.
“It is not easy for the government to just come in when there is trouble.
“That is why Rukun Tetangga works so well, because it is made up of locals, and who are known to the residents,” Azman said.
Kampung Medan, for instance, did not have an RT branch before the 2001 incident, but it does now.
In the recent Kampung Medan study, it was found that Rukun Tetangga was one area of community activity that drew the most active participation from Malay and Indian residents.

Preachers must not impose on others

May 14th, 2007
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Nik Aziz: Preachers must not impose on others
http://www.thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2007/5/14/nation/17718434&sec=nation
KOTA BARU: Islamic missionaries and those propagating its teachings must not impose their religious beliefs on others, said Mentri Besar and PAS spiritual leader Datuk Nik Abdul Aziz Nik Mat.
“Islam must be embraced voluntarily and sincerely, especially among converts who come to the religion because of sheer belief or those who adopt the faith because of marriage,” Nik Aziz said when launching the state’s month-long dakwah (missionary activities) campaign at Balai Islam here.
“We cannot force people to enter Heaven. They must do it on their own will.
“We can guide them but we cannot force.”
He said that, similarly, all political parties could not impose their ideologies on the people.
Nik Aziz who is the Chempaka assemblyman, said politicians must be ashamed if they impose their will and ideologies on the weak.
“It is not intellectual or rational to impose a value system of politics. Islam does not do it, so why must they?
“There is no capital to gain when Judgment Day befalls them in their spiritual life.”
He also said that missionaries were being overwhelmed by the rise of social ills from incest, rape, corruption, snatch thefts and murder.